The wedding industry is a powerful thing. With reality shows
devoted to picking the perfect dress to the huge money spent on venues,
photographers, catering, music, and decorations, these ceremonies and
receptions, with all their pomp and circumstance, still hold a special place in
our culture. Having recently attended my sister’s wedding I can personally
vouch for how mush interest there is in who is in the wedding party, what the
ceremony will include, what song the couple will use for their first dance, and
so much more. However, as beautiful as my sister’s wedding was and as wonderful
as my sister and mom proved as wedding planners, there is at least one better.
Believe it or not, in the pages of Revelation—filled with plagues, doom, cosmic
conflict, and beasts—there is a wedding celebration. At this most wondrous
occasion, recorded for us in Revelation 19:7-10, the reader witnesses the end
of one era and the dawning of a new. Therefore, let’s take a close look at
three pronouncements made in this passage (as we crash this eschatological wedding)
and celebrate along with the guests the culmination of Christ’s redemptive work
for his bride.
a. Pronouncement #1:
Announcement of the Marriage-19:7-8
With the celebratory
tone already set by the four-fold hallelujah chorus of verses 1-6, Revelation
19 immediately ushers the reader to a much-anticipated occasion—the marriage
supper of the Lamb. Continuing the exuberant theme of joy, the reader is
encouraged to “rejoice and be glad and give the glory to Him” (19:7a). This
kind of call is often used “to urge someone to unite with the speaker in a
course of action upon which he has already decided” (Chamberlain, Exegetical
Grammar, 83). Here, the speaker is calling John and his audience to join in
the excitement of heaven upon the culmination of the marriage of Christ and his
bride, the church. In other words we are to join the party that is already in
process.
The much-anticipated
celebration is identified in the second part of verse 7 when the speaker says,
“for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His bride has made herself ready,…”
(19:7b). In order to fully appreciate what this wedding celebration means, one
must be aware of ancient Jewish wedding traditions that, no doubt, run parallel
to this passage.
In the ancient
Jewish world, weddings were a big deal (believe it or not, an even bigger deal
than many make them out to be today). Celebrations could last days and, more
importantly, these celebrations took place at the culmination of a long
process. Stage 1: The betrothal and the payment of the dowry. In this
stage the groom approaches the father of the bride and agrees on a dowry for
the bride and signs a contract to that end. Once an agreement is made, the
couple is engaged and, “as good as married” in every legal sense. In fact, many
engaged couples referred to themselves as “husbands” and “wives” and, believe
it or not, it required a formal divorce to break up such an engagement. One
example of this phase of the marriage process is beautifully illustrated in the
life of Mary and Joseph prior to the birth of Jesus. Joseph had already agreed to
and paid a dowry for Mary and they were formally engaged. This is why upon
hearing of the baby he wonders if he should not divorce her quietly. Stage
2: The preparation for the celebration. Following the engagement, the groom
would make his house ready to accept his bride into their new home. Most engagements
lasted (at most) a year and during this time gifts were exchanged between the
two families. Stage 3: The snatching of the bride. Once preparations for
the groom’s home and marriage celebration were nearing completion, the bride
would make herself ready, dressing in all kinds of finery, to be picked up by
the groom on the way to his home for the marriage celebration. Though brides
and their wedding parties would know about when this would take place, they
didn’t know for sure exactly when the snatching the bride would happen. Most of
the time at night, the groom would call out to his bride, with much noise,
fanfare, and romance, and proceed to carry her to his home. There is an
interesting parallel parable that describes this phase of the marriage in
detail.
Matthew 25:1-12-“Then the kingdom of heaven will be
comparable to ten virgins, who took their lamps and went out to meet the
bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish, and five
were prudent. 3 For when the foolish took
their lamps, they took no oil with them, 4 but
the prudent took oil in flasks along with their lamps. 5 Now
while the bridegroom was delaying, they all got drowsy and began to
sleep. 6 But at midnight there was a shout,
‘Behold, the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’ 7 Then
all those virgins rose and trimmed their lamps. 8 The
foolish said to the prudent, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going
out.’ 9 But the prudent answered, ‘No, there
will not be enough for us and you too; go instead to the dealers
and buy some for yourselves.’ 10 And
while they were going away to make the purchase, the bridegroom came, and those
who were ready went in with him to the wedding feast; and the
door was shut. 11 Later the other virgins also
came, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open up for us.’ 12 But
he answered, ‘Truly I say to you, I do not know you.’ 13 Be
on the alert then, for you do not know the day nor the hour.”
Stage 4: The Marriage celebration. Once she was picked up, the bride, her
wedding party, and invited guests would gather at the home of the groom. Here, bride
and groom would enter the huppah, recite a blessing over the wine (a symbol of
joy), and finalize their vows. Now finally, the couple would consummate their marriage
and then enter the reception party where they would celebrate along with
friends and family, sometimes for days. At this
point the couple would be fully married and allowed to live their new lives
together.
Interestingly, each of these major
stages of ancient Jewish weddings are represented in the redemption saga
between Christ and his bride, the church. After all, the church is described as
the bride of Christ multiple times in the New Testament.
Ephesians 5:25-27-“Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself
up for her, that he might sanctify her,…”
2 Corinthians 11:2-“For I feel a divine jealousy for you, since I betrothed you to one
husband, to present you as a pure virgin to Christ.”
John 3:29-“The one who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the
bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly at the bridegroom's
voice. Therefore this joy of mine is now complete."
The church’s relationship with Jesus can
be traced using the same stages already described of an ancient Jewish Wedding.
In stage 1, Christ paid the
highest price for his bride on the cross and reached an agreement with God on
behalf of the church. In this, Jesus showed his willingness to give all to be
with his desired bride (how romantic). At the moment of payment, sealed with
the resurrection, those who are in Christ by repentance and faith are
engaged—“as good as married”—with an engagement that cannot be broken off no
matter how long it may take for the groom to make final preparations during stage
2. At some point in the future, and quite unexpectantly, Jesus, the groom,
will call for his bride, the church, and snatch her away to heaven to be with
him in stage 3. This is why the Bible constantly encourages readiness,
watchfulness, and sober-mindedness (Matt. 24:4; Lk. 12:40; Mk. 13:33-37). Luke
12:35-38 says “Be dressed in readiness, and keep your lamps lit. Be like men
who are waiting for their master when he returns from the wedding feast, so
that they may immediately open the door to him when he comes and knocks.” Here,
in Revelation 19, we read about stage 4, the bride and groom have
finally made it to his house, have made their final vows, and enter the
reception hall after their long betrothal and engagement.
In this passage, the Godhead is cast as
a divine wedding planner who set up His son, Christ, with his bride, the
Church, made the arrangements of the wedding, and picked the date. However, his
provision doesn’t stop there.
God even makes
provision by purchasing the wedding gown for the bride, “It was given to her to
clothe herself in fine linen, bright and clean; for the fine linen is the
righteous acts of the saints,…” (19:8). The passive voice here prohibits the
reader from believing the bride (church) in and of herself has had any kind of
active and/or compelling role in bringing about her readiness for marriage.
This readiness has been granted her by God—righteous garments. In other words,
this bride’s wedding dress was gifted to her as she was woefully incapable of
affording it or earning it in any way. This is a real Cinderella story here!
That the bride’s
appropriate dress is identified as the righteous acts of the saints is
established earlier in the Bible.
Isaiah 61:10-“I
will rejoice greatly in the LORD, My soul will exult in my God; For He has
clothed me with garments of salvation, He has wrapped me with a robe of
righteousness, As a bridegroom decks himself with a garland, And as a bride
adorns herself with her jewels.”
Job 40:10-“Adorn yourself with eminence and dignity, And
clothe yourself with honor and majesty.”
2 Corinthians 5:4-“For indeed while we are in this tent, we groan,
being burdened, because we do not want to be unclothed but to be clothed, so
that what is mortal will be swallowed up by life.”
Galatians 3:27-“For all of you who were baptized into
Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.”
Ephesians 6:14-“Stand firm therefore, HAVING GIRDED YOUR
LOINS WITH TRUTH, and HAVING PUT ON THE BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS”
Here, righteous
acts, acts that believers are not capable of performing apart from a
relationship with Christ, are described as wedding garments that identify them
as the bride of Jesus before a jealous world.
b. Pronouncement #2:
Blessing for the Invited Guests-19:9
After announcing the
marriage celebration, the speaker breaks out into one of seven beatitudes/blessings
(see 1:3; 14:13; 16:15; 20:6; 22:7, 14) found in the Book of Revelation—“Then
he said to me, ‘Write, ‘Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage
supper of the Lamb’” (19:9a). In this beatitude God’s role as wedding planner
extends beyond arranging the marriage, picking the date, and purchasing the
dress to include sending out invitations for others to join the celebration. While
in 19:7 believers are symbolized as the bride who has been clothed in
righteousness in preparation for the marriage ceremony, here, believers are
introduced as invited guests to the wedding celebration. Thus, according to
Revelation, saints are both the bride and the invited guests. This kind of
mixing of metaphors was common in the ancient world to add “richness to the
imagery” (Osborne, Revelation, 675). Just as the church is often
described in the New Testament as the bride of Christ, so too is there biblical
precedent for understanding believers as invited guests.
Matthew 22:1-14-“1 Jesus spoke to
them again in parables, saying, 2’The kingdom of heaven
is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. 3 He
sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to
come, but they refused to come. 4 Then he sent some more
servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my
dinner: My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered, and everything is
ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’ 5 But they paid no
attention and went off--one to his field, another to his business. 6 The
rest seized his servants, mistreated them, and killed them. 7 The
king was enraged. He sent his army and destroyed those murderers and burned
their city. 8 Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding
banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come. 9 Go
to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.’ 10 So
the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could
find, both good and bad, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.11 But
when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing
wedding clothes. 12 ‘Friend,’ he asked, ‘how did
you get in here without wedding clothes?’ The man was speechless. 13 Then
the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside,
into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’ 14 ‘For
many are invited, but few are chosen.’”
In Revelation 19:9,
the ones who have heard the invitation of God to this most wondrous occasion
and have responded positively (RSVPing via faith and repentance) are those who
are called “blessed” for they are allowed to celebrate the wedding feast of
victory in heaven.
After voicing this
blessing over those who have responded positively to God’s invitation to the
wedding for the ages the speaker exclaims, “These are true words of God’…” (19:9b).
c. Pronouncement #3:
Correction for John-19:10
In view of such splendor and in reaction to these
pronouncements, images, and symbols, John says “then I fell at his feet to
worship him” (19:10a). It is obvious here that John interpreted the speaker and
his message to mean that he (the pronouncer) was divine. However, the speaker
reveals that this is a mistake.
“But he said to me, ‘Do not do that; I am a fellow servant
of yours and your brethren who hold the testimony of Jesus; worship God” (19:10b).
The speaker’s correction reveals several things: 1) this angel is not divine
and/or equal to God. 2) the only proper destination for our reverent awe and
praise is God himself. 3) human beings like John and angels share solidarity (“they
are brothers and sisters”) in that they have faithfully testified about Christ.
Curiously, the
speakers continues with “for the testimony of Jesus is the Spirit of Prophecy”
(19:10c). This is similar to what was stated in Revelation 1:9-“I, John,
your brother and fellow partaker in the tribulation and kingdom
and perseverance which are in Jesus, was on the island
called Patmos because of the word of God and the testimony of Jesus.” If
these two passages are taken together, they might suggest that “the testimony
that Jesus is speaking (in certain spots, especially chapters 2-3) is the same
message that the Holy Spirit is speaking through the rest of the prophecy in
Revelation” (Wilson, ZIBBC, 335). Quite simply, the whole book is inspired
either by Jesus or by the Spirit but, ultimately, all by God.
So What?
What a beautiful scene—a much-anticipated
wedding ceremony between the Bridegroom (Christ) and his bride (the church).
This marks the end of an era and the beginning of a new one. One might also
remember that it was at a wedding that Jesus performed his first recorded
miracle, instigating, in some ways, his earthly ministry. There, the miracle
hinted at the end of one age (the old covenant) and the beginning of a new one
(the new covenant). Here again, at a wedding, Jesus turns the page and says that
one age is done (the church age and tribulation) and a new one is on its way (the
millennial Kingdom of God). In the face of so glorious a spectacle what are we
to do? What are we to take away? For those in Christ, this ought to inspire
perseverance. The same Christ who saved you (purchased the rights to marry you
and entered into a covenantal bond because of his death and resurrection) will
one day seal the deal and introduce you to a new and better life. Paul puts it
this way “He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of
Christ Jesus” (Phil. 1:6). What an encouragement it is to remember when we find
ourselves impatient and tired of waiting that Christ has not forgotten us. In
fact, to the contrary, he is getting things ready for us. Does he not say in
John 14 “Do not let your heart be troubled; believe in God, believe also in Me.
In My Father’s house are many dwelling places; it were not so, I would have
told you; for I go to prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive
you to Myself that where I am you have be also…”? Make yourself ready and do
not be dismayed!
However, for those without a relationship with Christ today, consider for
what you have settled. Revelation only mentions two potential relationships in
connection with the two kinds of people in this world (the people of God and
the people of the world). Either you are a part of the bride of Christ (married
to the perfect husband), or a suitor of the great harlot (deceptive,
unfaithful, dangerous, and ultimately unsatisfying). The latter might offer cheap
thrills for a season, but in the end, as we’ve read in Revelation 17-18, she
and all who lie with her, will be destroyed. Also consider what James says in
James 4:4-“Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with
the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the
world makes himself an enemy.”
The good news is that the invitation to the wedding we read about here in
Revelation 19 extends to everyone. Isn’t it about time to RSVP for this
celebration by forsaking the mistress of this world and embracing what Jesus has
done on your behalf?